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The Matrix of Relationship

We exist in a matrix of interwoven causal relationships between waves, particles and quarks of light energy. Everything is interconnected in this sea of energy. Every part of the universe is thus connected to every other part. It has been said that the most important part of understanding energy is not the source of the energy but the space around it and how each influences the other.
What does this mean to you?

  • What is the quality of the space around you?
  • How do you feel in your environment?
  • How do you feel around the people you generally come into contact with each week?


Taken a step further, in quantum theory the observer plays a more central role than that which is being observed. Studies have shown that an item to be observed only appears when the observer begins to focus on it.
What does this mean to you?

  • Are you looking for what you want in your relationships and life circumstances?
  • Or are you looking for what you don’t want?

Waves of Positive Energy and Positive Thoughts

One form in which energy is measured is through wave fluctuations. Just consider the waves that are emitted when you place two tuning forks of the same vibrational frequency next to each other. Once one is activated the other begins to vibrate at that same frequency. However, if you have a third tuning fork set at a different vibrational frequency it will not vibrate accordingly.

What does this mean to you?
Similar frequencies attract. Thus positive energy and positive thoughts beget more positive energy and positive thoughts. Conversely negative energy and negative thoughts attract more negative energy and negative thoughts. This also applies to what and who you are attracting into your life. People of like mind attract to each other. If you want to surround yourself with supportive, optimistic and kind-hearted people you have to be supportive, optimistic and kind-hearted!

Matrix of Energy

We are all connected through the matrix of energy. We are all influencing each other. We are all carriers of information in a constant energy exchange with others and the space around us. It was Gandhi who said, Be the Change that you want to see in the world. Given what we know about the matrix of energy connecting everything and everyone;

  • What impact are you having on the space around you?
  • How are you influencing others and the world at large?

Coaching and Counseling

Hilary Stokes Ph.D. and Kim Ward Ph.D. have been a team for 20 years, specializing in mind, body, spirit psychology. They are the authors of the bestselling books The Happy Map: Your roadmap to the habit of happiness and Manifesting Mindset: The 6-step formula for attracting your goals and dreams and founders of Authenticity Associates Coaching and Counseling. They are passionate about combining the best of holistic and traditional approaches to health and happiness. If you are interested in learning the answers to the most frequently asked questions on how to decrease stress and increase happiness sign up for their free video series.

About the Authors

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Hilary Stokes Phd

Dr. Hilary Stokes is a licensed psychotherapist in private practice in San Diego, California. Dr. Hilary received her PhD in psychology with a specialty in transpersonal psychology from San Diego University for Integrative Studies, a master’s degree in social work from San Diego State University and a master’s degree in Sport Psychology from San Jose State University. In addition to her ….

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Kim Ward Phd

Dr. Kim Ward received her PhD in psychology with a specialty in transpersonal psychology from San Diego University for Integrative Studies. She also holds a master’s degree in transpersonal psychology from John F. Kennedy University in Orinda, California. Dr. Kim is a certified trauma-informed coach and life coach in private practice in San Diego, California. In…

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