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    Brainspotting Therapy is a Powerful Modality for Healing Trauma and Emotional Stress

    Brainspotting therapy gets to the root cause of trauma, emotional issues and addictions.

    If you…

    • feel stuck or that you have plateaued in your healing
    • are tired of talking about issues and still dealing with symptoms
    • have tried other approaches without lasting results
    • feel there is more to explore and uncover but don’t know how to get there
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    Brainspotting therapy is one of the most effective therapies for changing unhealthy habits, healing trauma and resolving emotional issues. In this article we are going to share how Brainspotting can support you on your journey of healing and improved mental health.

    We will answer questions to help you better understand Brainspotting such as:

    • What is Brainspotting?
    • Who Developed Brainspotting?
    • What is the Brainspot?
    • What issues does Brainspotting treat?
    • How and why does Brainspotting work?
    • How effective is Brainspotting?

    What is Brainspotting and Brainspotting Therapy?

    Brainspotting Defined

    Brainspotting is defined as an advanced brain-body therapy that focuses on identifying, processing, and releasing trauma, mental health imbalances and residual emotional stress. It is based on the premise that ‘where you look affects how you feel’ and finds that eye positions correlate with unconscious, emotional experiences. When you focus on an eye position related to an upsetting issue, you release the emotional and physical stress within the issue. Brainspotting reaches parts of the brain that are not generally accessed in traditional talk therapy and most other types of therapy.

    Brainspotting therapy supports the reprocessing of negative experiences and retrains emotional reactions resulting in a decrease of physical and emotional symptoms and improved overall mental health. It incorporates bilateral stimulation, compassionate attunement and brain-body processing leading to rapid and effective change.

    David Grand Developed Brainspotting

    Brainspotting, developed by David Grand, has roots in EMDR therapy, somatic experiencing, relational and insight-oriented therapy. It supports the reprocessing of negative experiences and retrains emotional reactions.

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    What is the “Brainspot”?

    The brainspot is the eye position that connects to the implicit traumatic memory capsule containing the traumatic experience and brings it from a more unconscious state into a fuller explicit awareness where it can be processed and healed. As the brainspot is sustained with focused mindful attention, the information in the traumatic memory capsule is released and the body and mind move towards greater equilibrium. As implicit (unconscious) memories are brought up into explicit (conscious) awareness they can be dealt with and moved into a part of the brain that allows us to move forward in our lives.

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    Brainspotting Therapy Helps Psychological Trauma

    Brainspotting has been shown to be highly effective in a wide range of settings. It is not only used as a form of therapy to address mental health issues but also a powerful therapy for performance enhancement, public speaking and health issues.

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    How Brainspotting Therapy Works...

    Brainspotting can be used as a primary mode of therapy as well as in conjunction with traditional talk therapy, EMDR therapy and other types of therapy. For individuals who feel like they have plateaued in their healing or those who are not finding relief in more traditional approaches, Brainspotting offers new possibilities for breakthrough, healing and improved mental health.

    People report having deeper and more profound releases with Brainspotting as compared to other brain-based, body based, talk therapy and traditional types of therapy. The brain is re-stabilizing, resourcing, and rebooting itself during Brainspotting and the processing often continues to occur after the session has ended.  A doorway has been opened and information will continue to come up and out for releasing and healing. Given much of this information is sensory and nonverbal, it is common to not be able to put into words all that has happened. What often occurs are new insights emerge, internal shifts happen, and the issue feels neutralized. This may happen over the course of the session or in the hours, days, weeks or even years that follow.

    In the age of holistic health, brain-body approaches are increasingly sought after for treating simple and complex issues. Brainspotting is a newer mind-body therapy that is showing a lot of promise in its ability to provide relief for trauma, anxiety, depression, and daily stressors.

    Why Brainspotting Works...

    Trauma lives in the experience (not the event). When trauma occurs, it overwhelms the system and we are not able to process everything that happened. The primitive brain takes over and if we are unable to fight or flee to escape the situation, we shut down to survive. Once here, the body’s central nervous system makes it difficult to get out. We lose track of the details making it challenging to recall what happened after the fact. The traumatic experiences get stored at a sensory, visceral, and often nonverbal level in our implicit memory. This puts a lot of stress on the mind-body system, is exhausting and inevitably is not sustainable.

    Consequently, the following tend to arise:

    • Nightmares
    • Flashbacks
    • Anxiety
    • Depression
    • Irritability
    • Phobias
    • Panic Attacks
    • Isolation
    • Physical discomfort
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    These symptoms are not easily associated with the original trauma and thus it can be confusing as to where they are coming from. Adding to this confusion is the fact that the outside world is generally obsessed with what happened and recalling the details of the events, but this is not where trauma lives. It lives in the response not the traumatic event, in the sensory experience not verbalized cognitions. This is another reason people feel ashamed, isolated, confused and even crazy following a trauma event. Equally, it is why talking about it won’t make it go away. As long as the memories or experiences are suspended in implicit (unconscious) memory they cannot be fully let go.

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    Attachment and Coregulation

    Another way Brainspotting helps move from dysregulation to self-regulation is through the mindful presence of the therapist. Research shows that the safe, caring support of another person moves us into the part of our brain-body connection for healing. Brainspotting’s dual attunement frame activates regulation by supporting an individual to reconsolidate traumatic energy and memory and move into greater homeostasis. It is through the safety and compassionate presence of the therapist that implicit traumatic memory becomes activated and can be moved into explicit memory.

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    How to prepare for Brainspotting therapy?

    Brainspotting allows you to process unresolved issues, transform unwanted habits, breakthrough addictions, heal physical pain and emotional trauma, forgive and release hurts, regulate your body’s central nervous system and let go of unwanted patterns. It can be helpful to identify areas you would like to work on and heal. You do not have to have specific memories or incidents in mind yet be aware of the patterns or issues you want to work on. Your practitioner will help you to clarify what’s important for Brainspotting at the beginning of your brainspotting session.

    What to expect during and after Brainspotting?

    Brainspotting is a powerful trauma therapy that helps process and unravel stuck and unresolved issues. It can bring up feelings to express, sensations to release and sometimes memories to process. It often leads to powerful insights, revelations and new perspectives on old issues. It is not a form of therapy that one does on their own. In fact, it works because of the compassionate support and presence of the Brainspotting practitioner. After Brainspotting the therapy continues to work during the hours, days and weeks to follow. Expect to continue to feel the unwinding and unfolding of the process as the mind and body integrate the experience. Many people notice key insights coming through in the days following that they bring to the next session for processing.

    How effective is Brainspotting online?

    Brainspotting is very effective online over the telephone or video session. The same steps are followed in the brainspotting session whether online or in person. There are many benefits to doing online Brainspotting such as:

    • The convenience and comfort of being in your own space
    • The flexibility to work with a specialist certified in Brainspotting that may not be in your area
    • The ability to work with a Brainspotting practitioner of your choice that has been referred
    • Saving time and energy traveling to and from appointments
    • What is the difference between somatic therapy and Brainspotting?

      Somatic therapy involves releasing the build-up of stress in the body and mind. It is the process of connection with a felt sense or body sensations that store and carry emotional energy. As sensations of contraction, tension or residue stress are felt and experienced they tend to unwind and release pent-up emotional stress. This results in regulating the nervous system and an expanded state of openness, energy, vitality and healing. Somatic therapy is a foundational tool we use during Brainspotting or as a stand-alone approach.

    • What is the difference between mindfulness and Brainspotting?

      Mindfulness is a core component of Brainspotting. It provides the basis of being in the present moment, aware and connected. From this place Brainspotting therapy is highly effective.

    • Mindful Attunement & Polyvagal Theory

      According to Matthew Lieberman author of the book, Social, our need for connection is said to be even more important than our need for food and shelter. This notion echoes early studies in psychology showing that social isolation and neglect cause significant mental and physical decompensation and mortality risk.

      Polyvagal Theory, based on the work of neuroscientist Steven Porges, demonstrates that as evolved mammals our ability to engage socially shifts our physiology and allows for processing of traumatic energy and memories. Social connection activates the healing power of our vagus nerve to repair from the residue of trauma especially as related to the fight, flight, freeze, collapse, or appease nervous system responses.

      The understanding that trauma happens inside of a relationship causing a break in attachment and trust, means healing involves reviving the attachment pathway. The power of attunement and compassionate presence are at the heart of Polyvagal Theory and interpersonal neurobiology. Brainspotting’s success hinges upon an individual experiencing the safe, mindful attention of the practitioner.

      According to Robert Scaer, author of The Trauma Spectrum, “Brainspotting is based on the profound attunement of the therapist with the patient, finding a somatic cue and extinguishing it by downregulating the amygdala [a brain structure responsible for noticing threat and holding memories of threats].”

    • Brainspotting Risks and Side Effects

      Brainspotting can lead to powerful emotional, mental and physical healing. During a Brainspotting session sensations, memories, emotions and thoughts may emerge. After sessions people report feeling anywhere from calm and relaxed to tired and emotional. Processing continues after Brainspotting sessions as the doorway to the implicit memories remains open and the mind and body integrate in their own intelligent timing. Aside from the releasing, processing and healing that occurs, there are no known risks or side effects. Unraveling and unwinding may continue well past the Brainspotting session. Individuals regularly report new insights and awareness’s following Brainspotting sessions that allow for ongoing integration, healing and growth.

    • How effective is Brainspotting?

      Brainspotting therapy is a highly effective treatment for a range of emotional, mental and stress related issues such as depression, anxiety, addictions, ADD/ADHD, OCD, phobias, unhealthy habits and performance anxiety. There are a few key reasons why Brainspotting treatment is an effective approach. First, trauma and stress activate the most primitive part of our brain that rely far more on our sensory and emotional experiences than on our rational, cognitive ones. In fact, the primitive brain communicates more through our unconscious mind than it does our conscious mind. This is why we tend to have a hard time letting go of stressful issues just by talking about our them, the most common approach. We have to access our subconscious mind and sensory awareness in order to fully let go of trauma and stress. Brainspotting therapy is a powerful treatment that reaches the primitive part of our brain where trauma is stored. It was identified as the most effective therapy for individuals coping with the trauma of Sandy Hook school shooting.

    • Am I supposed to keep focused on the issue during the brainspotting therapy session?

      Brainspotting allows for an organic releasing of the emotional and physical stored energy around the issue you begin the session with. You may find that the issue continues to be present throughout the session but often we find that it shifts and moves into deeper layers of releasing and healing. You will not need to focus on the issue throughout the session unless that is where your brain and body continue to bring up sensations, feelings and information to be released. The therapist will guide as needed through the process.

    • Can I do cognitive therapy and brainspotting therapy at the same time?

      Brainspotting can be done at the same time as cognitive therapy. Brainspotting allows for deeper processing of trauma and emotional stress and can enhance the effects of cognitive therapy.

    • Can brainspotting therapy be done virtually?

      Brainspotting can be done effectively via video conference, Zoom or Facetime.

    • Can brainspotting therapy sessions bring up trauma that might upset me?

      Brainspotting allows you to access deeply stored mental, emotional and physical trauma. As the Brainspotting therapist we provide a safe, compassionate and mindful attention to allow you to feel completely supported to have your emotional process. You can stop the process at any time you wish. Most people we have worked with find Brainspotting to bring up emotions to be resolved and feel empowered in this process even if it’s challenging.

    • How many brainspotting sessions will I need?

      Clients have reported profound results in one session of Brainspotting but most often it takes several sessions to work through an issue.

    • How will I know if brainspotting therapy works?

      You will feel a shift in your mind and body during the Brainspotting process regarding the issue that you are working on. Most people feel a shift in sensation, emotions, physical charge, thoughts, insights and even memories. We will check in on how you are doing and the shifts that are occurring.

    • Will medications for depression, anxiety, PTSD, or panic attacks impact the efficacy of brainspotting therapy?

      Brainspotting helps to decrease and heal anxiety, depression, panic and PTSD. Medications do not negatively impact Brainspotting efficacy as long as the client is in a conscious state of mind.

    • What type of brainspotting training do you have?

      We are certified in Brainspotting therapy.

    • Why are you a good choice for brainspotting therapy?

      As certified Brainspotting practitioners we have gone through the process to be fully trained to support you in dealing with trauma, anxiety, depression, performance or stress related issue using brainspotting. We’ve conducted 100’s of Brainspotting sessions and it is one of our favorite strategies to use. We have found it works best when combined with other mind body techniques which we are also trained in such as biofeedback, somatic therapy, breathwork and energy psychology.

    What is the difference between somatic therapy and Brainspotting?

    Somatic therapy involves releasing the build-up of stress in the body and mind. It is the process of connection with a felt sense or body sensations that store and carry emotional energy. As sensations of contraction, tension or residue stress are felt and experienced they tend to unwind and release pent-up emotional stress. This results in regulating the body’s central nervous system and an expanded state of openness, energy, vitality and healing. Somatic therapy is a foundational tool we use during Brainspotting or as a stand-alone approach. It is a powerful form of therapy and trauma treatment for addressing emotional trauma, mental health concerns and improving overall mental health. 

    • What is the difference between mindfulness and Brainspotting?
    • Mindful Attunement & Polyvagal Theory
    • Brainspotting Risks and Side Effects
    • How effective is Brainspotting?
    • Am I supposed to keep focused on the issue during the brainspotting therapy session?
    • Can I do cognitive therapy and brainspotting therapy at the same time?
    • Can brainspotting therapy be done virtually?
    • Can brainspotting therapy sessions bring up trauma that might upset me?
    • How many brainspotting sessions will I need?
    • How will I know if brainspotting therapy works?
    • Will medications for depression, anxiety, PTSD, or panic attacks impact the efficacy of brainspotting therapy?
    • What type of brainspotting training do you have?
    • Why are you a good choice for brainspotting therapy?
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    how Brainspotting can help you heal.

    Hilary Stokes Ph.D. and Kim Ward Ph.D. have been a team for 25 years, specializing in mind, body, spirit psychology. They are the authors of the bestselling books The Happy Map: Your roadmap to the habit of happiness and Manifesting Mindset: The 6-step formula for attracting your goals and dreams and founders of Authenticity Associates Coaching and Counseling. They are passionate about combining the best of holistic and traditional approaches to health and happiness.

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    Brainspotting References Resources

    Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs)

    https://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/aces/index.html

    Brainspotting: Recruiting the midbrain for accessing and healing sensorimotor memories of traumatic activation

    https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S030698771300114X?via%3Dihub

    Brainspotting: Sustained attention, spinothalamic tracts, thalamocortical processing, and the healing of adaptive orientation truncated by traumatic experience

    https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0306987715000493

    Polyvagal Theory

    https://www.stephenporges.com/articles

    About the Authors

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    Hilary Stokes Phd

    Dr. Hilary Stokes is a licensed psychotherapist in private practice in San Diego, California. Dr. Hilary received her PhD in psychology with a specialty in transpersonal psychology from San Diego University for Integrative Studies, a master’s degree in social work from San Diego State University and a master’s degree in Sport Psychology from San Jose State University. She is a certified brainspotting therapist.

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      In addition to her private practice, she has experience working in integrative medical facilities such as the world-renowned healthcare facility Sanoviv Medical Institute, treatment centers for addictions and PTSD including Casa Palmera Treatment Center, psychiatric hospitals, schools and universities, correctional facilities, and business organizations.

      Dr. Hilary specializes in a mind-body approach to healing trauma, anxiety, depression, grief, coping skills, self-esteem, addictions, eating disorders, relationship challenges, life transitions, purpose in life, and performance anxiety.

      She has published several articles and co-authored two books, The Happy Map: Your roadmap to the habit of happiness and Manifesting Mindset: The 6-step formula for attracting your goals and dreams. She is currently furthering her knowledge and expertise in attachment focused EMDR and somatic therapy. In addition to a love of learning about neuroscience and mind body healing, Hilary can be found meditating, hiking, surfing, scuba diving, and spending time with her pets, family, and friends.

      Companies and organizations we have worked with:

      Presentations, Doris Howell Foundation, Institute of Functional Medicine, La Jolla Institute for Immunology, Nissan, Compass Real Estate Sharp Health Institute, Mattel, Usana Health Sciences, Youth and Family Assistance, MLK Family, Decorus, Odessy, Ariix, Casa Palmera Treatment Center, EVCI, Interboro, DEMA, GSDBA, LGBTQ Center San Diego

      Websites and social featuring our publications:

      • Mind Body Green
      • Psych Central
      • Cure Joy
      • SD voyager
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    Kim Ward Phd

    Dr. Kim Ward received her PhD in psychology with a specialty in transpersonal psychology from San Diego University for Integrative Studies. She also holds a master’s degree in transpersonal psychology from John F. Kennedy University in Orinda, California. Dr. Kim is a certified trauma-informed coach and life coach in private practice in San Diego, California. She is a certified brainspotting therapist.

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      In addition to her private practice, she has experience working in integrative medical facilities such as the world-renowned healthcare facility Sanoviv Medical Institute, treatment centers for addictions and PTSD including Casa Palmera Treatment Center, psychiatric hospitals, schools and universities, correctional facilities, and business organizations. Dr. Kim specializes in an integrative approach to dealing with trauma, anxiety, and depression, making peace with the past, transforming stress, healing relationships, living with purpose, and rewiring your brain for happiness.

      She has been featured in several articles and co-authored two books, The Happy Map: Your roadmap to the habit of happiness and Manifesting Mindset: The 6-step formula for attracting your goals and dreams. Given the powerful healing experiences she witnesses with Brainspotting, she is presently advancing and deepening her skills in both Brainspotting and somatic therapy. Outside of her love for helping people, Kim has a passion for exercise, all animals, spending time in nature, meditating, and connecting with her family and friends.

      Companies and organizations we have worked with:

      Presentations, Doris Howell Foundation, Institute of Functional Medicine, La Jolla Institute for Immunology, Nissan, Compass Real Estate Sharp Health Institute, Mattel, Usana Health Sciences, Youth and Family Assistance, MLK Family, Decorus, Odessy, Ariix, Casa Palmera Treatment Center, EVCI, Interboro, DEMA, GSDBA, LGBTQ Center San Diego

      Websites and social featuring our publications:

      • Mind Body Green
      • Psych Central
      • Cure Joy
      • SD voyager
    read more
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