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    A Brain-Body Approach to
    Healing Anxiety and Panic Attacks

    Anxiety can feel overwhelming, exhausting, and sometimes impossible to control. Many people understand, logically that they are safe, yet their body continues to react, as if danger is present. If you've ever told yourself to just relax, but still felt your heart racing, your chest tightening, or your mind spinning with worry, you're not alone.

    This is because anxiety is not just a thinking problem, it's a nervous system problem. Brainspotting therapy is one of the most effective brain-body approaches for resolving anxiety at its source, helping the nervous system release stored stress and trauma, so the body can finally return to a state of calm.

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    Why Anxiety Persists: The Brain-Body Connection

    Anxiety Lives in the Survival Brain

    Anxiety is primarily driven by the amygdala, the brains’ alarm system responsible for detecting danger, and activating the fight, flight, freeze, or appease response.

    The amygdala operates below, conscious awareness, and does not rely on language or logic.
    This explains why many people with anxiety say things like:

    “I know everything is fine, but I still feel panicked.”

    “My body reacts before I can stop it.”

    “My thoughts spiral, even when nothing is wrong.”

    Traditional talk therapy works mainly with the thinking brain (prefrontal cortex) but when anxiety is triggered, the survival brain overrides logic.

    As brainspotting founder, Dr. David Grand explains:

    “Where you look affects how you feel.”

    Brainspotting works by accessing that subcortical brain, or trauma, emotional stress, and anxiety responses are stored.

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    The Problem With “Just Talking” About Anxiety

    Talking about anxiety or stress can increase awareness and insight, but many people discover that understanding their anxiety doesn't stop it. This happens because anxiety is stored in implicit memory systems in the body and nervous system that exist below our conscious awareness and rational thought.

    Common signs that anxiety is stored in the nervous system include:

    • Persistent muscle tension
    • Racing heart
    • Hypervigilance
    • Difficulty, relaxing
    • Panic attacks that seem to appear suddenly

    When anxiety is rooted in the deeper brain systems, bottom-up therapies are often required.

    The Bottom-Up Solution: Brainspotting

    Brainspotting works from the body up to the brain, helping the nervous system process and release stored emotional stress. Through a precise process involving eye position and focused awareness, brainspotting helps identify the location in the brain where anxiety is ‘held’.

    Once the spot is located, the brain begins its natural self healing and regulation process.

    Clients often report that anxiety triggers that once felt overwhelming begin to feel neutral or manageable.

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    What is Brainspotting?

    Brainspotting is an advanced therapy for overcoming negative emotions, healing traumatic experiences and rebalancing the nervous system. The process involves identifying, processing and releasing stored trauma and emotional stress with the help of a certified Brainspotting therapist. It is one of the few techniques that effectively addresses the root cause of psychological stress and emotional trauma. This is a primary reason why Brainspotting is so effective at treating PTSD, depression, anxiety, addictions and many other stress-related and mental health challenges. If you feel like you have plateaued in your healing or are not finding relief in other approaches, Brainspotting offers new possibilities for breakthrough.

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    How Brainspotting Helps Heal Anxiety and Panic Attacks

    Anxiety and panic attacks are rooted in a chronic state of nervous system hyperarousal. The body remains stuck in a heightened fight, flight, freeze, or appease response. Brainspotting works by accessing the subcortical brain regions, such as the amygdala and brainstem, responsible for storing unresolved trauma and maintaining this anxious state. Brainspotting enables the processing and release of stress and traumatic imprints that play a significant role in chronic anxiety and panic. Through a simple yet sophisticated process, brainspotting supports unravelling the cause of anxiety and panic. As the nervous system re-regulates and moves toward homeostasis, clients often report feeling noticeably calmer, more resilient, and less reactive. Situations that once triggered intense anxiety begin to feel neutral or manageable, an indication that healing has taken root at the brain-body level. Research in neuroscience and somatic therapies continues to affirm the effectiveness of brain-based approaches in reducing anxiety symptoms by targeting the body’s implicit memory systems.

    Brainspotting vs. CBT: Key Differences in Treating Anxiety

    Both Brainspotting and CBT are used to treat anxiety and panic attacks, but they differ in some significant ways.

    Brainspotting is a bottom-up, neurobiological approach that begins with the body’s sensory experience to calm and regulate the nervous system and mind. Since anxiety is often a visceral and deeply felt experience, accessing the subcortical regions of the brain, the areas connected to instinct, emotion, and body memory, is essential for lasting relief.

    CBT is a top-down, analytical approach that relies on the rational mind to identify, manage, and reframe anxious thoughts. While this method can be helpful for some, it often falls short during acute anxiety or panic. If you’ve ever tried to tell yourself to “calm down” in the midst of a panic attack, you know how ineffective logic can be when the nervous system is in a heightened state of alert.

    The Reflexive Response:
    Signs the Brain is Processing

    During brainspotting sessions, therapists observe subtle body cues that indicate the nervous system is processing unresolved stress.

    These reflexive responses may include:

    Deep sighs

    Swallowing

    Eye blinking

    Facial twitches

    Shifts in
    breathing

    Body
    movements

    These signals show the brain is releasing stored emotional material and rebalancing the nervous system.

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    How Brainspotting Therapy for Anxiety Works

    Brainspotting sessions are gentle, focused, deep and often surprisingly calming.
    Here is what a typical session looks like.

    Creating a safe and calm environment

    Brainspotting sessions typically begin with attunement and grounding. Many therapists use bilateral sound which is calming music that alternates between the right and left ears. This bilateral stimulation helps the brain enter a focused, regulated state that supports emotional processing.

    Finding the Activation in the body

    Instead of analyzing thoughts, brainspotting begins by noticing where anxiety shows up in the body.

    Clients may identify sensation such as:

    • Tightness in the chest
    • A lump in the throat
    • Butterflies in the stomach
    • Shallow breathing
    • Pressure in the head
    • Areas of heat

    This body awareness helps locate the neural pathways where anxiety is stored.

    Locating the brain spot

    Using a pointer, the therapist slowly guides the client's gaze across their visual field. Certain eye positions activate deeper emotional networks in the brain. When the correct eye position is found, clients often notice a subtle shift, the body may feel more activated, emotional, or aware.

    The processing phase

    Once the brainspot is identified, the client simply maintains gentle awareness while the brain processes. There's no need to perform, analyze, or explain what is happening. Clients simply observe sensations, emotions or memories as they arise. The brain naturally processes and releases unresolved material often without needing to talk extensively about it.

    What results can you expect from brainspotting for anxiety?

    Relief

    Many clients report feeling:

    • Calmer
    • More grounded
    • Less reactive

    In as little as 1 to 3 sessions. This is because the nervous system has begun releasing stored stress.

    Long-Term Resolution of Anxiety Triggers

    Over time, brainspotting helps desensitize triggers that once caused intense anxiety. Situations that previously activated panic or fear may feel neutral or manageable.

    Expanded Window of Tolerance

    A key goal of trauma therapy is expanding the window of tolerance, the range of stress a person can handle without becoming overwhelmed.

    As Brainspoting sessions progress, clients often notice:

    • Greater emotional resilence
    • Improved stress tolerance
    • Fewer anxiety and panic responses

    Physical Relief From Anxiety Symptoms

    Because anxiety is stored in the body, many clients experience relief from physical symptoms such as:

    • Jaw clenching
    • Shallow breathing
    • Muscle tension
    • Restless sleep
    • Digestive discomfort

    What is Anxiety?

    Are you anxious or just stressed out?

    We all know what it feels like to be stressed out, worried, overwhelmed and as though we may buckle under the pressures of life. At these times the nervous system can get activated and our heart may race, palms sweat or stomach feels queasy. Just think of a time when you had to speak in public or felt put on the spot in front of a group of people and didn’t know what to say. Anxiety often triggers our body’s natural fight, flight, freeze, collapse or appease mechanisms. These responses from our nervous system are designed to protect us from a perceived threat or danger. However most modern-day anxiety is based on our perception of situations and not true physical threats. Persistent worry and stress can cause a constant state of nervous system overdrive and become very uncomfortable to experience.

    Although feeling anxious is normal in new, uncertain or risky situations, it can be challenging to know if there is a problem with anxiety or if you are experiencing normal levels of stress and nervousness. As a general guideline, you are likely having a problem if anxiety becomes so frequent and intense that it takes over your life and you can’t control the worry, self-doubt, stress and overwhelm. Anxiety in this case, becomes generalized and as a result, feelings of worry and stress can be felt in multiple areas. It can also have a very intense physical component impacting sleep, energy levels and feeling tense or on edge all of the time. Many people feel like they don’t want to be in their body because they are so uncomfortable. These are all signs that the sympathetic nervous system is activated and it is releasing stress hormones. This is often part of the fight, flight or freeze response where we are on heightened alert to guard against the perceived threat.

    By nature, anxiety is related to a fear of what might happen, once the snowball of the nervous system starts it can sometimes be rather challenging to stop. In other words, anxiety begets more anxiety and a vicious cycle ensues. Understanding how to prevent this from happening and also stop it once it’s started requires working directly with the nervous system.

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    What are Panic Attacks?

    Panic attacks are sudden surges of intense fear and physical discomfort that reach a peak within minutes, often accompanied by racing heart, shallow breathing, feeling dizzy, choking sensation and a fear of losing control or dying. Many clients describe panic attacks as terrifying and disorienting, especially when they happen without warning.

    Are you Anxious or Depressed?

    Clients come to us confused as to whether they are anxious or depressed. The answer is quite often, both. Persistent worry and fear of the future that is typical with anxiety often brings up regrets from the past that is typical with depression. It is common for people who experience anxiety to also experience depression and vice versa. In fact, 50% of people who experience depression also report experiencing anxiety.

    Anxiety has been considered the common cold of mental health with more than 40 million adults in the United States experiencing anxiety every year. That equals over 18% of the population and makes anxiety the #1 mental health diagnosis. Although anxiety is considered a mental illness or disorder, we find it more useful to think of it as an imbalance in the mind and body. While only 36% of people seek treatment, there are many effective treatments for anxiety. If you or someone you know is experiencing several of the following signs, consider reaching out for help.

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    Common Symptoms of Anxiety

    Emotion / Mood

    • Fear, terror, dread
    • Uneasy, edgy, irritability
    • Hypervigilance, panic, excessive worry
    • Overwhelm, fear of death

    Cognitive

    • Racing thoughts, catastrophic thinking, rumination
    • Hypochondriac, self-doubt
    • Difficulty concentrating, focusing, making decisions or remembering

    Physical

    • Gastrointestinal issues, stomachache
    • Low energy or wired with high energy
    • Muscle tension, heart palpitations, heart racing
    • Shortness of breath, shallow breathing,
    • Nausea, headaches, palms sweaty, dizziness

    Weight

    • Appetite changes, losing weight, gaining weight
    • Craving foods

    Behavioral

    • Avoiding social interactions
    • Risky and self-destructive behaviors such as excessive drinking, using drugs, gambling, driving fast and promiscuity

    Sleep

    • Sleep disturbance - too much sleep or too little sleep
    • Nightmares
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    Equally Challenging, Less Known Symptoms of Anxiety

    12 Lesser-Known Signs of Anxiety You Might Be Overlooking

    Over time, brainspotting helps desensitize triggers that once caused intense anxiety. Situations that previously activated panic or fear may feel neutral or manageable.

    Emotion / Mood

    • Developing phobias and fears such as driving, heights, small spaces
    • feeling detached from one’s body or sense of self

    Cognitive

    • Disassociation
    • Pessimism

    Behavioral

    • Staying at home to limit social interactions or fearful of going outside,
    • Over attachment to a safe person, place or thing that feels safe
    • Impulsivity, talk fast and loudly
    • Nail biting, self-harm, picking at one’s body or skin

    Physical

    • Constipation or diarrhea, frequent urination
    • Trembling, shaking, pins and needles, chills, hot flashes, numb, buzzing
    • Sensory sensitivity such as lights, noises, scents, bright colors, crowds
    • Teeth /jaw grinding, fainting, changes in body temperature

    What Does Anxiety Look Like?

    4 Major Types of Anxiety (and How They Differ)

    Generalized Anxiety Disorder (GAD)

    A pattern of anxiety where excessive worry is experienced in many aspects of a person’s life such as finances, health, relationships, driving, work and other issues. The anxiety reaction to these issues is disproportionate, catastrophic or generally unwarranted to actual situations. Worry is experienced more days than not for a period of 6 months and the individual has three or more additional clinically significant symptoms such as restlessness, irritability or sleep disturbance.

    Panic Disorder

    Panic Disorder is characterized by recurring panic attacks. A panic attack is a sudden feeling of extreme fear and discomfort that reaches its peak within several minutes. Four additional criteria must be met such as trembling, heart palpitations, shaking, feelings of choking, fear of death, nausea, dizziness or chest pain. As well, one of the panic attacks must be followed by a month of extreme worry about having another panic attack.

    Social Anxiety Disorder

    A pattern of anxiety related to social situations and the fear of being judged, ridiculed, rejected, or negatively evaluated in some way by others. Extreme anxiety about upcoming social events and avoidance of social situations are common. This may include job interviews, parties, dinners, holidays, going shopping or other important events.

    Obsessive Compulsive Disorder

    A pattern of anxiety where unwanted and intrusive thoughts are obsessed over and relief is found temporarily in compulsively carrying out a specific act. The compulsive act is intended to relieve the pressure and anxiety caused by the distressing obsessive thoughts.

    What Causes Anxiety?

    What Can Trigger or Contribute to Anxiety?

    • Past trauma or highly stressful life events
    • Chronic insomnia
    • Gut-brain imbalances
    • Hormonal fluctuations
    • Sudden loss or change
    • Health challenges

    Treating Anxiety

    Traditional approaches for anxiety generally include medication and talk therapy. Although these are often viewed as the primary forms of treatment, they don’t work for everyone. Many of our clients find they experience short term or limited results with these approaches. Our evolving understanding of the mind-body connection and neuroscience have led to a range of highly effective methods for treating anxiety.

    Mind-body Approaches

    Effective Mind-Body Therapies for Anxiety Relief

    Mind body approaches are fundamental to treating anxiety. Given anxiety has a primary physical component, brain-informed, or body-based therapies have been shown to be essential in reducing symptoms of anxiety. In many cases these treatments far surpass traditional approaches.

    Integrative Approaches

    There is a wealth of integrative medical approaches that many people find to be great alternatives or additions to medications. This may include acupuncture, herbs, CBD, essential oils, pet therapy, music therapy, homeopathy, amino acid and nutritional supplementation and a host of other natural methods to healing and rebalancing mind and body.

    Healthy Lifestyle

    Regular exercise, yoga, regular exercise, adequate sleep, spending time in nature, social support and healthy nutrition habits have been well researched as vital components of a healthy lifestyle that decrease anxiety.

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    Success Stories

    Laura Reeves

    Dr. Hilary is an amazing therapist and working with her has been transformative. She's empathetic, intuitive, a great listener and really smart. This combination, along with her skilled use of brainspotting, has helped me become clearer, move through challenging circumstances from my past and open up my future. I'd highly recommend her to anyone seeking a commpassionate and supportive therapist.

    Ali Gould

    I have worked with Dr. Hilary for a few years and could not have had a better experience. Dr. Hilary is one of the most kind, compassionate, understanding, and insightful individuals I have had the pleasure of getting to know. She is incredibly knowledgeable about a plethora of therapeutic techniques and exercises. Over the years, I have grown immensely with the help of Dr. Hilary.

    Linda Mantel

    I began working with Dr. Kim Ward while I was in deep grief after my husband's passing. She walked me through the darkness with her kindness, compassion and professional skills and I've continued to work with her for several years. In addition to talk therapy, brainspotting has been amazingly helpful in unlocking emotions and beliefs I wasn't aware of. Working with Dr. Ward has been life-changing! She continues to be a wonderful gift in my life.

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    About the Authors

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    Hilary Stokes Phd

    HIlary Stokes, Ph.D., LCSW is a licensed psychotherapist in California with more than 25 years of clinical experience, specializing in trauma therapy, PTSD treatment, anxiety, depression, and nervous system healing. She holds Master's degrees in Clinical Social Work and Kinesiology and Sports Psychology and a Ph.D. in Transpersonal Psychology with a specialization in Tibetan Buddhist Psychology. Dr. Stokes is extensively trained and certified in brainspotting, EMDR, somatic therapy and other mind body approaches. Her integrative work bridges neuroscience, mindfulness, and holistic psychology to help clients process unresolved trauma, rewire stress patterns, and build emotional resilience.

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    Kim Ward Phd

    Kim Ward, Ph.D. holds both a masters and a doctorate in Transpersonal Psychology with a specialization in Tibetan Buddhist Psychology. She brings more than 25 years of experience in trauma recovery, Brainspotting and mind-body transformation. She is extensively trained and certified in Brainspotting, somatic therapy, and trauma-informed approaches. Dr. Ward integrates neuroscience, nervous system regulation and consciousness-based psychology to help individuals process unresolved trauma, shift limiting beliefs, and access greater emotional resilience. Her work focuses on healing at the root, beyond symptom management, through brain-body therapies that create lasting change.

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