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How to practice the Centering Meditation step by step

Centering Meditation Practice

Centering Meditation: Three Options

Select one of the following three options to focus your attention and quiet your mind during your centering meditation.

1. Diaphragmatic Breathing Focus your awareness on your breathing. Become aware of your inhale and exhale. Notice the sensation of your breath. FEEL your breath coming and going, going and coming, through your nose. Diaphragmatic breathing becomes the vehicle to carry you towards peace. Diaphragmatic breathing involves inhaling allowing your stomach to rise and exhaling allowing your stomach to gently fall.

2. Sound: Choose to focus your attention on a sound. Let the sound of music, silence, or nature be your focus. Notice the subtleties of sound within the sound.

3. Word or phrase: Select a word or phrase that brings you a sense of peace or connects you to healing. It could be an affirmation or inspiring phrase. It could also be one line from a prayer or a passage from a spiritual/religious text.

Quiet Your Busy Mind

During the centering meditation bring your full awareness onto what you have selected. As you do this you may begin to notice that you become distracted. You will know this by your thoughts wandering or thinking about something other than what you have selected to focus on. For example you might start thinking about your agenda for the day, what is on your to-do list, what you will be eating, what is happening with others in your life, your body or even day dreaming. This is simply your cue to bring your awareness back to what you have chosen to focus on. You may have to retrieve your attention 10, 20 or 100 times. There is no right or wrong way to do this. Experience whatever arises in the mind like bubbles rising from the bottom of the ocean. You may feel as though you are not doing it right because you have a busy mind. It is common to experience a busy mind especially when you are first practicing meditation. Don’t get discouraged. Stick with it. As you continue to practice it becomes easier to quiet your mind and experience your center.

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About the Authors

Hilary Stokes Phd

Dr. Hilary Stokes is a licensed psychotherapist in private practice in San Diego, California. Dr. Hilary received her PhD in psychology with a specialty in transpersonal psychology from San Diego University for Integrative Studies, a master’s degree in social work from San Diego State University and a master’s degree in Sport Psychology from San Jose State University. In addition to her ….

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Kim Ward Phd

Dr. Kim Ward received her PhD in psychology with a specialty in transpersonal psychology from San Diego University for Integrative Studies. She also holds a master’s degree in transpersonal psychology from John F. Kennedy University in Orinda, California. Dr. Kim is a certified trauma-informed coach and life coach in private practice in San Diego, California. In…

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