About us
Authenticity Associates:Healing Through Trauma-Informed Care in San Diego
At Authenticity Associates, we provide trauma-informed counseling and coaching grounded in compassion, presence, and deep respect for each person’s unique healing journey. Life brings challenges and at times we all need guidance and support. We believe that no matter where you are in your journey or what you’ve experienced, you hold the innate capacity to heal, grow, and thrive. Healing is not a linear path, it is dynamic, integrative, and deeply personal. That’s why we specialize in holistic approaches such as Brainspotting, EMDR, somatic therapy, and mindfulness. These powerful modalities help gently uncover the root of emotional pain including trauma, anxiety, depression, limiting beliefs and stuck patterns while supporting lasting transformation.
How We Help:Mind-Body Therapy for Deep, Lasting Change
Brainspotting
EMDR
Somatic Therapy
Mindfulness
We’ve Been There Too: Why This Work Matters to Us
Authenticity Associates was founded by Hilary Stokes, PhD and Kim Ward, PhD, both of whom have walked their own paths of trauma recovery and personal transformation. Their lived experiences with anxiety, PTSD, addiction, and self-sabotaging patterns led them to explore healing approaches that extend beyond traditional talk therapy. The two met in the early 1990s while working in organizations devoted to transformational healing. What began as a shared passion for personal growth and integrative wellness evolved into a lasting partnership.
Our Credentials & Training
In addition to holding PhDs in transpersonal psychology, Hilary and Kim hold more than 20 certifications in trauma-informed mind‑body modalities at Authenticity Associates. These include:
- Brainspotting
- EMDR (Attachment‑focused)
- Somatic Therapy
- Mindfulness & Meditation
- Breathwork
- Biofeedback
- Psychedelic Therapy Preparation & Integration
- Hypnosis
- Energy Psychology
- Enneagram coaching
- NLP, Reiki, breathwork, and more
This broad training allows us to focus on what you need to heal physically, emotionally, mentally, energetically, and relationally.
Trauma Informed Practice & A Mind Body Approach
Authenticity Associates was founded by Hilary Stokes, PhD and Kim Ward, PhD, both of whom have walked their own paths of trauma recovery and personal transformation. Their lived experiences with anxiety, PTSD, addiction, and self-sabotaging patterns led them to explore healing approaches that extend beyond traditional talk therapy. The two met in the early 1990s while working in organizations devoted to transformational healing. What began as a shared passion for personal growth and integrative wellness evolved into a lasting partnership.
What We Treat
Authenticity Associates works with clients facing a wide range of mental health and emotional challenges:
- Trauma - PTSD, developmental trauma and complex trauma
- Anxiety, panic attacks, insomnia, performance anxiety
- Depression, grief and loss
- Unhealthy habits, addiction, and self‑sabotage
- Chronic pain
- Low self‑esteem and issues with self-confidence
- Emotional regulation and reactivity issues
- Relational challenges
We have found trauma-informed methodologies are especially effective for individuals who have not fully healed with traditional therapies.
Releasing Trauma and Reconnecting: Nervous System Healing Through Holistic Therapy
Trauma can leave us feeling disconnected from our bodies, our emotions, and the people around us. It fragments our sense of self, disrupts relationships, and keeps us stuck in patterns of hypervigilance, anxiety, avoidance and survival. Through holistic, body-centered therapy, we help you begin to reconnect first with your body and nervous system, then with your inner wisdom, and ultimately with your authentic self. This healing unfolds in a space of mindful attunement, where you feel deeply seen, supported, and safe enough to move beyond survival and into presence.
If you’ve felt stuck or reached a plateau in your healing journey, it may be because you've focused primarily on analyzing your experiences. This is known as a ‘top-down’ approach that engages the thinking mind but attempts to bypass the body. Similarly, trying to override old habits or emotional patterns through willpower alone often falls short. True healing happens when we engage the mind and body to release what’s been held inside and create space for lasting change.
Brain-Based and Body-Centered Therapy
At Authenticity Associates, we integrate brain-based and body-centered therapies that support nervous system regulation, emotional processing, and embodied awareness. These approaches gently reach the root of unresolved pain, helping to release what’s been stuck and build new neural pathways for resilience, connection, and authentic living.
Beyond Talk Therapy: Brain-Based and Body-Centered Therapy
At Authenticity Associates, we integrate brain-based and body-centered therapies that support nervous system regulation, emotional processing, and embodied awareness. These approaches gently reach the root of unresolved pain, helping to release what’s been stuck and build new neural pathways for resilience, connection, and authentic living.
Brain-Based and Body-Centered Therapy
Authenticity Associates invites you to explore personal transformation rooted in presence, depth, and authentic connection. Blending trauma-informed science with personal experience, we provide a compassionate space to rediscover your core, realign with your path, and live authentically.
Our Story
We met in the early 90’s while working with an organization committed to healing, transformation and global consciousness. We felt like kindred spirits finding each other again as seekers on the path with a deep calling for authentic healing. We have been partners in work and life ever since. We come from a personal understanding of overcoming life trauma and vulnerabilities including post-traumatic stress disorder, anxiety, depression, eating disorders and purposelessness. We had run the gamut of attempting to heal through traditional approaches that were not truly effective. At the time we were in graduate school for psychology and felt disillusioned with the process of true healing. We had each spent years in talk therapy to heal past trauma yet were still struggling with unhealthy patterns and symptoms.
This set us on a quest to discover alternative strategies for healing. We sought out the best of mind body therapies. Together we have training and certifications in over 25 holistic modalities including biofeedback, meditation, EMDR, brainspotting, breathwork, the Enneagram Personality System, neuro-linguistic programming, Tibetan Buddhism psychology, hypnosis, EFT, energy psychology, coaching, reiki and visualization.
Mind-Body Specialists at Sanoviv Medical Institute
In 1998 we were honored to be part of a small team of health experts contracted to design and develop Sanoviv Medical Institute. In addition to contributing to the overall vision of Sanoviv, we developed and managed the psychology, spirituality and fitness programs for just under 10 years. Sanoviv Medical Institute, is a one-of-a-kind integrative hospital that blends state of the art 21st century medicine with a luxurious healing atmosphere. It was the first fully licensed functional medicine hospital in the world specializing in the prevention and treatment of health challenges at the level of the root cause vs. symptom management. We gained priceless insight and practical experience in integrative health. We witnessed firsthand the importance of integrating mind, body and spirit for attaining health and happiness.
Kim Ward PHD
I feel genuinely inspired to support people on their journey of personal growth and transformation. I believe in a practical and compassionate approach. I learned early in my business career that status and material gains do not lead to happiness. I had obtained much of what I thought would bring me happiness, yet I felt hopeless, unfulfilled and passionless. One day I had a flash of insight while sitting in a board meeting overlooking the beautiful Scottsdale Arizona desert. I realized I had it all, but felt like I had nothing. I mustered the courage to leave it all behind in the pursuit of authentic happiness. This included coming out of denial and dealing with my mother’s untreated bipolar disorder, learning how to be present and embodied and eventually going back to school to start a whole new career.
I chose to study transpersonal psychology so that I could support people on all levels of mind, body and spirit. I am most inspired by supporting others to heal the past, love who they are and live authentically.
Hilary Stokes PHD
In my first year of college, after many years of struggling with social anxiety, depression, an eating disorder and adrenal exhaustion, I was given a major wake-up call. I was diagnosed with post-traumatic stress disorder and faced for the first time addressing past trauma. I had spent years in traditional talk-therapy approaches, only to feel like I was going in circles. I continued down the path of searching for a solution, I felt increasingly defeated by my own mind and body. I understand the value of a healthy mind because I know what it is like to have an unhealthy mind. After thousands of hours and dollars I discovered through the combination of mind, body and spirit that true healing is possible. I am on a mission to support others in experiencing healing and transformation. I believe in partnering with and empowering individuals through a combination of experiential and mind body strategies.
We have a holistic private practice where we specialize in advanced mind body approaches for healing trauma, PTSD, anxiety, depression, burnout, addiction, relationship issues and any mental health challenge. We love learning and sharing science-based methods that empower individuals to create health, happiness, vitality. Our book The Happy Map: Your roadmap to the habit of happiness, is a culmination of what we have learned on both sides of the couch for healing trauma and stress and cultivating happiness and wellbeing.
While Manifesting Mindset includes the 6-step strategy we used to develop our practice and manifest our goals. We love sharing these steps and strategies.
We are passionate about nature, animals and spirituality. We enjoy spending rejuvenation time hiking, surfing, biking, scuba diving, deepening our spirituality, meditating, practicing qigong and yoga, and relishing in the loving connection of our friends, pets and family.
Check out their interview with SD Voyager Magazine
Phone/Fax: (619) 819-6841
Email: contact@authenticityassociates.com
Our office is located in Carlsbad, CA 92009
We also do nationwide sessions via Zoom and FaceTime.
Please contact us for an appointment.